Seven Things to Look For on the First Date

Dating Coachings : Seven Things to Look For on the First Date

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Dating Coachings: Seven Things to Look For on the First Date

The first date with a new girl is actually a day for knowing about each other and see if you both connect logically and emotionally. Therefore I will be telling you today about the seven things to look for on the first date.

Dating Coachings: Seven Things to Look For on the First Date  The first date with a new girl is actually a day for knowing about each other and see if you both connect logically and emotionally. Therefore I will be telling you today about the seven things to look for on the first date.  First Thing to Look for on the First Date: How She Grooms Herself  On the first date, you have to pay attention to how she grooms herself. Grooming and looking beautiful or dressing well (whatever you may call it) really matters to women and also takes a lot of effort.  A little thing while dressing up in order to look more attractive really takes a long time, drawing an eyebrow can take an unimaginable amount of time for women. So if she put in so much work into looking more beautiful than she could be naturally, then that is an indicator of interest for you, pay attention to that.
Dating Coachings: Seven Things to Look For on the First Date
The first date with a new girl is actually a day for knowing about each other and see if you both connect logically and emotionally. Therefore I will be telling you today about the seven things to look for on the first date.
First Thing to Look for on the First Date: How She Grooms Herself
On the first date, you have to pay attention to how she grooms herself. Grooming and looking beautiful or dressing well (whatever you may call it) really matters to women and also takes a lot of effort.
A little thing while dressing up in order to look more attractive really takes a long time, drawing an eyebrow can take an unimaginable amount of time for women. So if she put in so much work into looking more beautiful than she could be naturally, then that is an indicator of interest for you, pay attention to that.

First Thing to Look for on the First Date: How She Grooms Herself

On the first date, you have to pay attention to how she grooms herself. Grooming and looking beautiful or dressing well (whatever you may call it) really matters to women and also takes a lot of effort.

A little thing while dressing up in order to look more attractive really takes a long time, drawing an eyebrow can take an unimaginable amount of time for women. So if she put in so much work into looking more beautiful than she could be naturally, then that is an indicator of interest for you, pay attention to that.

Second Thing: Table Manners

No matter how simple a girl is, or how razz a girl is being on the first date even second date at times, she wouldn’t be eating like anyhow like a pig and she would be keeping good table manners. Even though you might say who table manners help or marlians don’t have manners, women still put in great work in portraying themselves well while being with someone they so much respect

Third Thing to Look for on the First Date: How Much Attention is She Paying to her Phone

This doesn’t apply to the first date alone, but in all cases women find themselves in, when a woman pays less attention to something, then she is not interested in that thing or that person.

There is a popular belief that if you are able to catch a woman cheating, then she has been looking for a way to dispose of you, Why? because women focus their attention on wherever they have their emotional interest and when they divert it to someone or something else, they are no more interested in the former thing or person unlike the men, men may be focusing on something else because the situation calls for it.

This is not a to shit on women or mean any disrespect to women but that’s just a reality for men and women to use to their advantage.

If she was pressing her phone like once or twice, you can jokingly just put her back on track, but when she hangs on her phone making minutes of calls, replying to texts, then its time for you to know your stand.

Fourth Thing: How She Treat Others

Fourth Thing of the seven things to look for on the first date is how she treats other people, Pay good attention to how she treats other people, most especially the people who don’t matter to her.

You have to pay attention to how she treats waiters, gatemen and the likes but don’t give her a clue that you are watching out, judging her or paying attention to that but take note of this things whether she is dismissive,or rude or she is a humble type, saying thank you for the little things (even though they are doing their job).

The reason for all this is because if she can act rude to the waiter unnecessarily, then she will start being rude to you with time if you date her

Fifth Thing: Gossipping and Badmouthing Others :

One of the worst nightmares you can have is to have a partner who badmouths people, because if she badmouths others terribly especially when most of the things he says about them are untrue, then ditch her.

This doesn’t have to do with people who are public figures or you have no direct acquittance with such as celebrities, politicians, and entertainers, I mean the people whom both of you have mutual acquittances with like an old friend in school or someone whom both of you know and have anything to do with personally, then she starts shitting on them and pouring out hate in the name of criticism? cut her off (with common sense though).

Another exception is when both of you fairly have a common enemy, e.g as a student, both of you have a common enemy like a professor who is incompetent or just a nasty person who is trying to take the life out of you academically or you are both into a business and there is a certain person getting on who happens to be a pain in the butt like an unfair, or power oppressing law officer or whatever of the like. Having such a common enemy with a woman is good and also a better way of getting in her good graces (winks)

Sixth  : Pushing Your Hands Away

When you are on a date, especially a dinner date or any kind of date being fixed to a restaurant, I wouldn’t advise you to sit opposite a girl even though a lot of guys do this. I would suggest sitting right beside a girl such that when you both start getting comfortable conversationally, you will be able to escalate on her physically, meaning you will be able to show that you are physically interested in her by gradually, slowly and fluctuating touching her body parts like thighs to show a clear intention of you being interested in her physically/sexually.

if she pushes your hand away, then she is not interested in you physically, and even if she is interested in you on another level may be on a common interest or emotional level, then you should know pushing your hand away is a sign that you still have a long way to go in getting physical or getting down with each other.

At the first attempt of touching her, she might reluctantly push or shove your hand away just to show she is a good girl, but when that repeats or she pushes your hand outrightly, then you know what time it is

Seventh Thing to Look for on the First Date: POLITICS & RELIGION :

This is the last but not just the least, but the most powerful of the seven things to look for on the first date. A girl’s view of life needs to be considered which for the most percentage of girls is about their religion and social-political orientation. I am not saying someone serving a religion shouldn’t date the other but when you realized this person can do anything detrimental to you under her intention of protecting her religion or her belief or political orientation, then cut her off.

An example is if a Christian girl starts shiting on Muslims or shitting on you because you are a Muslim, or a Muslim girl doing that the other way round or a Buddhist to a sango worshipper, then pick your social scissors and do the right thing. People of a different religion can date each other (when they are both sane) but some people are not sane but they yet are diagnosed with mental illness in Yaba. The same thing applies to unhealthy feminists too (if there are any feminists who are healthy)

In conclusion: keep all these 5 things in mind and use them to your advantage whenever you are going on a first date. This tip is not just for men alone, but also for women as well. You women can take the ones you find useful for you in the article, actually, most of it is useful to women as well.

Reference :

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